Helping Clients Transform Self-Sabotage into Self-Alignment

Why do clients keep sabotaging the very goals they say they want? The AHA Solution teaches you how to compassionately decode self-sabotage and guide clients toward lasting, aligned change. Based in NLP and attachment theory, this method reveals the unmet emotional needs that drive reactive behaviors, like procrastination, people-pleasing, or avoidance, and replaces shame with self-leadership.

In this highly interactive session, you’ll observe real-time coaching and walk away with a repeatable tool you can use immediately in sessions. Your clients don’t need willpower; they need clarity, compassion, and a conscious path forward. The AHA Solution shows them the way.

Cooling the Fire: Coaching Clients Through Reactive States

Conflict doesn’t have to burn bridges or burn us out. Cooling the Fire offers coaches and helping professionals a clear, practical method for navigating high-emotion conflict moments with confidence and care. Whether your clients are caught in attack, silence, shutdown, or defensiveness, this course equips you with the Conflict Map, an actionable tool to decode what’s really happening beneath the behavior.

Through dynamic examples, live demos, you’ll learn to recognize the four conflict modes, stay grounded in heated conversations, and use curiosity and self-expression to de-escalate tension. This session helps you (and your clients) shift from reaction to reconnection, so even the hardest conversations become opportunities for clarity, repair, and growth.

The Mirror Effect: Building Coaching Connection with NLP Mirroring

Mirroring is one of the most impactful yet understated tools available to coaches and communicators. When used skillfully, it can help defuse tension, build instant rapport, and create the kind of resonance that makes people feel truly seen and safe.

In coaching conversations, mirroring can support deeper client trust, open the door to meaningful breakthroughs, and create a powerful sense of alignment—even in emotionally charged moments. It enhances your presence, sharpens your listening, and allows you to meet clients where they are without losing your grounding.

This 60-minute session is designed for those who want to work with greater subtlety, connection, and influence—whether in one-on-one sessions or group spaces.

Acting As If: A Pathway to Possibility in Coaching

When clients feel stuck, hesitant, or not ready, they don’t need pressure—they need possibility. The As If technique introduces a powerful NLP tool that helps clients momentarily bypass limiting beliefs and connect with a future version of themselves. This opens new emotional and cognitive space for insight, courage, and aligned action.

In this 60-minute session, you’ll explore how to ethically and effectively use the As If technique in coaching to unlock perspective shifts, resource states, and meaningful momentum. Whether your clients are navigating visibility, confidence, or major life transitions, this tool creates a safe and creative way to explore who they are becoming.

Belief-Out Framing: Transforming the Stories That Hold Us Back

We don’t act on reality, we act on what we believe about it. Belief-Out Framing is a dynamic NLP-informed approach that helps coaches support clients in identifying, observing, and transforming the limiting beliefs that silently shape their actions and self-image.

In this 60-minute session, you’ll explore how to guide clients in stepping outside of rigid thought patterns, seeing beliefs as editable stories rather than fixed truths. Through reflective exercises and demonstration, you’ll learn how to use this technique to surface empowering alternatives and help clients reclaim agency over their inner narratives.