It may not always feel this way, but your life is more or less working. You have a reliable source of income. You have at least one relationship – friend, family or romantic – that is satisfying. You don’t have it all figured out yet, but you know how you’re going to get through this year. You’re stable.
Not in a self-aggrandizing way. You may not feel like you have a lot to prove, but when you hold conversations at social gatherings, you realize that something is lacking – for you – in the typical shallow talk that most people like to make.
Your mind is not a one way street. You think of possibilities, explore new ideas and find it hard to accept just one way of thinking. You don’t really think anyone is 100% right or holds the ultimate truth. You’re open-minded.
Insights into human nature are interesting to you. You enjoy discovering something new about yourself, or how the mind works. You’re not overly defensive or in so much denial that you can’t see your weaknesses.
So, when you watch this video on psychological attachments and self-sabotage, you can readily acknowledge where it applies to you.
You’re not satisfied with the typical American materialistic dream. You want more. You recognize that inner fulfillment and peace of mind – being at peace with yourself – is the ultimate happiness. Material success is important. There’s nothing wrong with it. In fact, it’s fun to succeed. Yet. there’s more to life and you understand that.
You’re smart, stable, open-minded and curious to know more. Yet, you may be suffering with stubborn issues you can’t figure out on your own. Admitting this may be difficult, but you’ve come to understand that the only one standing in your way is….you.
If you could figure out how to get OUT of your way, it would change your life. Because…
You may feel worthless or undeserving of love and respect. You could lack boundaries. You may not feel like you fit in…anywhere. You may lack motivation. You may berate yourself with criticism. You may be a true master of self-sabotage…
All of these issues are normal and common. Still, it’s frustrating and discouraging to suffer with them – over years and years – especially when you’re so smart. You’re a highly capable person, but some of these issues may seem 100% resistant to resolution.
Most of my clients are well read and have done a lot of personal growth work, either by themselves or in counseling/coaching. For most of them, something has been missing from all prior personal development work.
This is where my coaching can be a breath of fresh air. I practice differently than most other coaches and therapists. I help you nail issues that have frustrated you for years – and we’ll do that early on.
I don’t know why I can do it so consistently. It’s probably refined intuition combined with tens of thousands of dollars in therapy, coaching and training over 25 years. My AHA-giving gift doesn’t make me special. It makes me useful. And I’ll be honored to commit my usefulness to resolve your toughest issues.
If you’d like to explore working with me, begin by filling out the form below. I screen the forms personally and confidentially. I’ll be in touch to schedule a time to have an introductory consult. During this short session, you can ask all the questions you want about coaching as applied to your situation.
Please understand the following before submitting the form:
I am a professional coach. If we both think I can help you, then I’ll invite you to work with me for 12 sessions. This is the magic number of sessions that leads to predictably successful results.
Cost: my coaching is neither cheap nor expensive. I charge a pretty standard rate and help my clients with flexible payment solutions. Additionally, if you work with me, you’re entitled to a complete happiness guarantee. If you find the coaching doesn’t meet or exceed your expectations during the first 30 days, you can cancel the rest of the program and receive a full refund of any fees paid.